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Big feelings in German

Use simple German to name feelings, offer comfort, and reassure your child.

What you'll learn

  • Ask about sadness and offer comfort.
  • Describe feelings with ich bin (I am).
  • Use du bist (you are) to reassure your child.
  • Give a gentle instruction for breathing.

German phrases for big feelings

  • Bist du traurig?

    Are you sad?

    Use du when speaking to your child.

  • Ich bin hier.

    I am here.

    A simple way to let your child know you are nearby.

  • Es ist okay zu weinen.

    It is okay to cry.

    Zu weinen means 'to cry.'

  • Brauchst du eine Umarmung?

    Do you need a hug?

    Eine Umarmung means 'a hug.' Ask gently and let your child choose.

  • Ich bin stolz auf dich.

    I am proud of you.

    Learn stolz auf dich as a chunk meaning 'proud of you.'

  • Atme tief ein.

    Take a deep breath.

    Literally 'Breathe in deeply.' A gentle instruction to one child.

  • Du bist sicher.

    You are safe.

    Sicher means 'safe' here; it can also mean 'sure' in other contexts.

  • Ich bin glücklich.

    I am happy.

    Glücklich describes feeling happy.

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Key words

traurig

sad

Use with bin or bist to describe a feeling.

hier

here

Tells someone where you are.

weinen

to cry

The basic form of the verb.

brauchen

to need

With du, use brauchst.

die Umarmung

hug

A feminine noun; 'a hug' is eine Umarmung.

stolz

proud

Use stolz auf to say whom you are proud of.

einatmen

to breathe in

In Atme tief ein, ein moves to the end.

tief

deep; deeply

Describes how to breathe in Atme tief ein.

sicher

safe; sure

The situation tells you which meaning is intended.

glücklich

happy

The ü is a different sound from u.

Describing feelings with sein (to be)

Use ich bin for 'I am' and du bist for 'you are.' Put the adjective after the verb. Adjectives used this way do not change their endings.

UseFormExample
I amIch bin + adjective.Ich bin glücklich. — I am happy.
You areDu bist + adjective.Du bist traurig. — You are sad.
Proud of someoneIch bin stolz auf dich.Ich bin stolz auf dich. — I am proud of you.

Asking yes/no questions

Put the verb before du to ask a yes/no question. German does not add a separate word for English 'do.'

UseFormExample
Question with bistBist du + adjective?Bist du traurig? — Are you sad?
Question with brauchstBrauchst du + noun phrase?Brauchst du eine Umarmung? — Do you need a hug?

More examples

Ich bin traurig.

I am sad.

Use ich bin to name your own feeling.

Bist du glücklich?

Are you happy?

Bist comes first in the question.

Ich bin hier bei dir.

I am here with you.

Bei dir means 'with you' here.

Möchtest du eine Umarmung?

Would you like a hug?

A gentle way to offer a hug.

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