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Try It Yourself in German

Use simple German phrases to celebrate your child's growing independence and offer gentle support. The verb können means “can” or “to be able to.”

What you'll learn

  • Talk about what you and your child can do.
  • Ask simple questions with “Can you ...?”
  • Use nicht to say what someone cannot do.

German phrases for try it yourself

  • Du kannst Fahrrad fahren.

    You can ride your bike.

    Fahrrad fahren is the natural German expression for riding a bike; you do not need to say “your.”

  • Kannst du Nudeln kochen?

    Can you cook pasta?

    Start with Kannst du to ask your child about an ability.

  • Ich kann dir helfen.

    I can help you.

    Helfen takes the dative form dir, meaning “you” here.

  • Du kannst deine Tasche packen.

    You can pack your bag.

    Deine Tasche means “your bag.” Use a warm tone to encourage your child.

  • Kannst du das allein machen?

    Can you do this alone?

    Allein means “alone” or “by yourself.”

  • Ich kann deinen Helm nicht finden.

    I cannot find your helmet.

    Kann ... nicht means “cannot.” Finden stays at the end.

  • Wir können heute nicht draußen spielen.

    We cannot play outside today.

    Use können with wir (“we”). Heute means “today.”

  • Du kannst ein Spiel aussuchen.

    You can choose a game.

    Aussuchen means “to choose” or “to pick out.” Here, kannst offers your child a choice.

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Key words

das Fahrrad

bike; bicycle

Learn it in the phrase Fahrrad fahren (“to ride a bike”).

die Nudeln

pasta; noodles

This is a plural noun. Nudeln kochen means “to cook pasta.”

die Tasche

bag

Tasche is feminine, so “your bag” is deine Tasche.

der Helm

helmet

As the object of finden, “your helmet” becomes deinen Helm.

draußen

outside

Draußen spielen means “to play outside.”

das Spiel

game

Ein Spiel means “a game.”

Saying what someone can do

Können changes with the subject. In a simple statement, put the correct form after the subject and the action verb in its base form at the end. Use du when speaking to one child.

UseFormExample
I canich kannIch kann dir helfen.
You candu kannstDu kannst deine Tasche packen.
We canwir könnenWir können draußen spielen.

Asking “Can you ...?”

For a yes/no question, put kannst first, then du. The action verb stays at the end.

UseFormExample
Question patternKannst du ... + base verb?Kannst du Nudeln kochen?
Short positive answerJa, ich kann ...Ja, ich kann das.

Saying “cannot”

Use nicht to make the sentence negative. In these examples, nicht goes before the final action verb or before the activity phrase draußen spielen.

UseFormExample
I cannotich kann ... nicht + base verbIch kann deinen Helm nicht finden.
We cannotwir können ... nicht ... + base verbWir können heute nicht draußen spielen.

More examples

Du kannst das!

You can do it!

A short, encouraging phrase. German does not need machen here.

Kann ich dir helfen?

Can I help you?

A gentle offer of support. Put kann first to make a question.

Wir können zusammen spielen.

We can play together.

Zusammen means “together.”

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